Cant help falling in love with you5/29/2023 ![]() We have so much in common.” Next thing you know, the two begin to hang out and Jennifer or Adam begin to vent about their relationship to this new friend. Jennifer or Adam begin to fall for this new friend thinking, “I can talk to them about anything. They can’t deny the physical attraction or chemistry. They become friends on social media and then that leads to exchanging numbers. Jennifer or Adam finds this person attractive and they also seem to “click”. They get introduced and immediately hit it off. Eight months later, Jennifer or Adam meet someone at an outing with friends. They are attracted to one another, have fun together, can talk about anything, etc. It requires more than just a physical attraction and chemistry to sustain a relationship. If you continue to base your relationships on attraction and emotional connection, they will fail. People are believing the lie that they can’t help who they love or just because they have chemistry with someone that there needs to be some sort of friendship/relationship established. That is honestly why a lot of people cheat in relationships and carry that same behavior into their marriages and end up divorced. There’s nothing wrong with that.But it becomes a problem when you start to think and act beyond just attraction. ![]() Being attracted to someone or viewing them as attractive is completely normal. Relationships and marriages should not be based upon simply physical attraction or chemistry. I’m not saying that just because you feel like you can’t help who you love that you’re in a bad relationship. ”What? You’re trying to tell me that I chose to love that ex of mine or I will choose to love a future girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse?” Yes, that’s exactly what I’m saying! See, I used to say I couldn’t help who I liked or loved as an excuse because deep down I knew that I was even wrong for entertaining the relationship in the first place. What many don’t know or fail to acknowledge is that love is a choice. “You can’t help who you love” often becomes an excuse for loving the wrong person. It just depends on what you feel is most natural beat count - and that could depend on how fast you play the tune.I’ve heard it so many times, and I’ve even said it before. So there is not necessarily a hard and fast rule here. with the 3/4 bars in pairs, and the quarters turned into 8ths: 3/4 Hopefully you see that either of the following feels a lot more natural and comfortable: 6/8 67 bpmīTW, the tune it's based on - Plaisir D'Amour - muddies the waters further, because that does seem to be written either in 3/4 or 6/8 - i.e. Those are the things you would (or should) instinctively count. I.e., the concept of a "beat" is a pulse like something you could walk, dance, sway or clap to - fairly large bodily movements of some kind. It feels like two beats per syllable, because the six notes themselves are way too fast for beats. Some are even in 4/4, but they seem to be other versions (no triplet marking).Įach syllable of the phrase "wise men say" contains six notes, but those six fall clearly into two groups of three. Or 12/8 if you don't mind the bars being twice as long.Ī quick google of published sheet music seems to show most of them in 12/8, just a few in 6/8.
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